Transforming the way we relate

to self ✴︎ to each other ✴︎ in community

Hello and welcome to The Pleasure Ethic. I’m Elena and I’m so glad you’re here.

I provide culturally competent, trauma informed Relationship Coaching; and pleasure based Sex Coaching & Education.

The mission of my practice is to bring more pleasure, ease, and choice to every aspect of our lives and relationships.

Services

  • New! Conversation Series

    Small group, facilitated, in-person sessions exploring emotional, erotic, and relational intelligence

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  • Individual Coaching

    1:1 coaching for personal growth and empowerment in a shame and judgment free space

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  • Relationship Coaching

    Dedicated time and support for partnerships of all kinds

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  • Packages & Intensives

    Focused and immersive, co-created agenda for individuals and couples

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  • Professional Mentoring

    1:1 and group mentoring, consultations, and support for professionals in the sex and intimacy field

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“In our work together, Elena has showed me the power of what ‘being seen’ feels like in my most vulnerable moments. It's amazing how therapeutic it can be to show yourself to somebody who is truly non-judgmental. I have been able to re-write my own narrative surrounding my idiosyncrasies and as a result feel more comfortable with my own unique life story.

Elena has an uncanny ability of keeping the attention of the session on my own therapeutic work while simultaneously bringing her own story into the equation at the perfect times. It's been incredibly helpful to have a practitioner who isn't scared of showing her own vulnerabilities.”

Timothy, 32, Oakland